Auction Bidding in Alphington: Why Walking Away was the Smartest Move
Buying a family home in Melbourne is one of the biggest financial and emotional decisions you’ll ever make. And nowhere is that more obvious than under the pressure of a property auction. The crowd, the fast-paced bidding, and the emotions running high can push even the most disciplined buyers beyond their limits.
As a Buyer’s Advocate working across Melbourne’s Inner East and Inner North, I see this play out week after week. My auction in Alphington was a perfect example of why having clear boundaries, solid research, and professional representation can protect you from years of financial stress.
The Alphington Auction: March 2025
The property came with an ESR (expected selling range) of $1.35 million to $1.45 million. On the surface, it looked like a strong opportunity for a family home.
The hammer eventually fell at $1,777,000.
We were the underbidders.
Why We Walked Away
This is where the role of a Buyer’s Advocate truly comes in.
I had completed thorough research and prepared a clear strategy with my clients. We knew the property’s fair value and had built in some flexibility to allow for competition. I also factored in what I call an emotional tax—that extra stretch when you know a client has fallen in love with a property, and you want to give them every chance while still protecting their financial wellbeing.
But there’s a point where smart strategy becomes reckless emotion. At nearly $330,000 above the top of the quoted range, the numbers no longer made sense for this particular property type. Two buyers, clearly locked into an emotional bidding war, pushed the price far beyond what my clients were comfortable with.
That’s when you stop.
The Cost of Overpaying
The biggest risk of auction day is not missing out—it’s overpaying.
In the heat of the moment, many buyers think winning is everything. But if you stretch too far, you risk years of regret and financial strain. You may find yourself stuck with buyer’s remorse, second-guessing whether you paid far too much when another property might have been a smarter buy at that price point.
This is exactly what a Buyer’s Advocate helps you avoid. My role is to be the calm, strategic voice in a very emotional environment. I take the selling agent pressure off your shoulders, keep the bidding process disciplined, and ensure that if we buy, it’s for the right reasons at the right price.
Why This Matters in Melbourne’s Inner East and Inner North
Suburbs like Alphington, Kew, Ivanhoe, Hawthorn, Camberwell, Northcote, and Brunswick are highly competitive, especially for quality family homes. Auctions can run well above expectations, and the competition is fierce.
But it’s important to remember that not every property in these markets is worth paying top dollar for. Being able to step back and assess whether a property justifies the price is where professional representation makes all the difference.
Sometimes, walking away is not a loss, it’s the smartest financial decision you can make.
The Lesson
The Alphington auction reinforced what I see every week: the importance of setting boundaries and sticking to them.
Research sets the foundation. Know the true market value of the property.
Strategy gives clarity. Decide your limits before the auction starts.
Discipline protects you. Don’t let emotions override your financial goals.
By walking away, my clients avoided the trap of overpaying in a runaway auction. They saved themselves from buyer’s remorse and kept the door open for a smarter, more valuable purchase.
Final Word
When you’re competing at auction in Melbourne’s Inner East or Inner North, having a Buyer’s Advocate on your side can mean the difference between making a costly mistake and making a sound investment.
Sometimes the smartest move is not winning at all. Because in property, as in life, the real win is knowing you made the right decision for your family and your future.
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The Advocate Advantage
As a Buyer’s Advocate specialising in Melbourne’s inner east and inner north, I guide families and professionals to secure homes in premium locations like Northcote, Alphington, Thornbury, Fairfield, Hawthorn, Balwyn, Kew and Camberwell. My role is to:
Identify the best streets and micro-pockets.
Uncover off-market opportunities that never hit the major portals.
Provide objective advice on value, desirability, and future growth.
Handle negotiations so you secure the property with confidence.
Finding your dream home doesn’t have to be overwhelming. With the right guidance, the process becomes not only easier but far more rewarding.
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